Seven years ago I was a college student, broke and sleep-deprived. I had $10K in student loans, an $8/hour part-time job, and nothing to my name but a computer, bicycle and clothes. $5 teriyaki was a treat. Today I’m a few years away from paying off a house, have 6 months’ emergency savings, and no debt.
What did I do?
That’s it. Let’s take a quick look at why I did the things I did.
Like most Americans, I like stuff. Movies, music, books, good food, shiny new electronics, etc. However, I also hate giving people my money. So I like finding cheap or freeways to get what I want.
If you are like most people, you have 2-3 expenses that consume most of your paycheck. Two of them are probably housing and food. The third varies, but it is often health care, transportation, childcare expenses, or paying off debts.
Meta-Lesson: When spending money, don’t do what society expects. What society expects is often the most expensive choice. Be creative, diligent, and unusual in trying to achieve your goals.
Let’s use housing as an example. I don’t like mortgages. I especially dislike them when a bank is involved. Why? Because I don’t like paying $900,000 over 30 years for a $300,000 house, which is what happens when you have a mortgage. So instead, I arranged a loan through my grandparents, paying them a lower interest rate as well. I’ll probably pay $400,000 for a $300,000 house, and there is no way a bank can ever foreclose on me.
Lesson #1: By making modest tradeoffs and being creative, you can save a lotof money for other things.
Let’s take books as another example. I’ve spent $4,000 a year on books before. Now I spend roughly $300 for the same volume. How? I use the library, go to bargain-book sales, and use sites like swap.com to get books for $0-$3 instead of $10-$40.
Lesson #2: By focusing on exactly what you want (books to read) and eliminating what you don’t want (a new book, in a hurry), you can save a lot of money for other things.
Let’s use food as an example. There are dozens of websites that talk about how to reduce your grocery bill. The best advice I’ve read is to spend 30 minutes each week going over your receipts, and figuring out what you spend money on. Then keep a notepad with the lowest price you’ve found for your common items, and where you got it. That way you’ll focus on saving money on your most common groceries, and probably think of alternatives. If you eat a lot of veggies, farmers’ markets and CSAs can be handy. If you eat a lot of meat, knowing a local butcher could save a lot of money.
Lesson #3: Data is power. Having more information about yourself empowers you to change your life. History is chock full of good ideas, if you look.
Lastly, let’s use childcare as an example. I don’t know much about this, since I don’t have kids yet, but my first instinct is to use friends and family. It’s how families have taken care of childcare in the old days, and it’s highly effective. I’ll cover why in a later post, but the key point is that they share your values and are going to be more personally interested in your child’s welfare than someone who is just getting paid to do it.
The average American family has $118,000 in debt. $95,000 of that is debt on their house (mortgage, line of credit), $7,400 is credit card debt, and the remaining $15,600 is assorted loans (auto loans, student loans, etc). That is a lot of money to owe people.
Worse, you have to pay interest on it. Lots of interest. Even a super-nice 5% interest rate on all of that means you pay $5,900 just to keep things from getting worse. If you do that, your debt never goes down.
Debt Meta-Lesson: Do not trust lenders or banks to help you reduce debt, or to help you make prudent financial decisions. It is in their best interest for you to be squeezed for all you’re worth.
Debt Lesson #1: Try and stay out of debt whenever possible. If you can’t, try to minimize how much debt you take on, and have a plan to pay it off.
This was very hard right after I graduated, because I had no income (yet) and needed to get an apartment, basic furniture, etc. I ended up asking a couple friends to be roommates and buying a small amount of furniture at IKEA. It worked out well for a while, until I had more income to help with expenses. I was definitely living on credit cards for a few months, though.
Want some more concrete tips? Search for ‘how to reduce debt’ in a search engine.
Debt Lesson #2: Make sure you don’t rack up new debts as you pay off your old ones.
This was another hard lesson for me to learn. After I had paid off my moving/apartment debt and had a steady income, I used my credit card to buy an HDTV, computer parts, books…until I realized I would have to pay $500/month for a year to get it all paid off. That’s when I realized that I don’t have sufficient discipline to handle a big credit card.
Another useful tip: Once you have some savings, ask to get your credit card limit reduced.
Increase your income
For most people, this is hard to do. It also comes with an ever-increasing spiral of time, stress, and worse health. Arguably, you should not expect your income to increase unless:
Here are the links of the week that I found particularly interesting or relevant.